最 important thing is your heart first.

When I saw the boy get so angry, it made me feel so bad. In my mind, the friend was always this cool and serious person—like he'd been through a lot before—and he didn't show any immediate trouble. But somehow, something in him popped up—he looked for his head to explode like that, his face turning red, his eyes pales, and he looks like he's about to throw up.

This was really surprising to me. In my mind, the friend was a person of quiet elegance—like he'd been through all these good things before—and when he faced a problem, he didn't get frustrated. He didn't make a quick reaction—he took his time and waited for something to change. When you see someone like that, it's hard not to feel the same way.

But this boy didn't show any of that. He just kept getting angry. I couldn't help but think: what could be causing all this frustration? And then... he saw my friend. He looked at him and said, "First isn't important, right?" That was the first thing that made me sit up on my butt.

Then he continued on—just like everyone else did. The boy didn't care about any of it. He just wanted to stay calm. He wanted to be good. He didn't want anyone to think too much about what he had done wrong. He just wanted him to get better, and that was the most important thing.

And when things finally stopped getting worse—that boy started to stop acting like that—was really disappointing. It wasn't because of me or his friend, though. He was still the same boy who used to be a tough kid, but now he was so lost in his own little plan that everything he did looked way out of place.

Then I started thinking about this boy and why he kept acting like that. And it made me feel good—because the only thing that mattered most was this boy's progress. When he got better at school and when he excelled during exams, the world around him changed in ways I couldn't fully grasp.

And now, as a parent, I have to figure out why all of these things are happening. Why am I living through this, watching my kid get so angry? It's hard not to feel like the most important thing is getting better and more focused. And that's exactly what this boy was doing—because he was focusing on his own little plan.

When he got better at school, when he did well in exams—and even though it wasn't perfect—those days made a difference. They made me realize how important it was to keep working hard, even when things didn't look great. And that's the most gift I've ever received from this little boy. He taught me so many things that are still fresh in my mind.

And now, as we're sitting here looking at each other and this boy, I think about how perfect "first" is a word—it seems almost like something that could never be right. But I don't think it's always going to matter. Some people might not care about getting first place—maybe they just want someone who works hard, stays focused, and gets better at everything they do.

But this boy was different from everyone else. He didn't show any of the usual signs that get thrown around when you talk about getting first place. He didn't see anything out of character—just something that made me feel really good. And he kept doing it like that until it stopped being so frustrating. That, I think, is the most important thing.

When we all look for "first" today—I mean, everyone wants to get better and work harder—and that seems to be what this boy is showing us. It's not just about getting first place—especially when it comes down to something like health or happiness—that matters. And I can't help but think: how lucky am I to have someone who's so focused on their own little plan, even if everyone else doesn't seem so focused?